Hetalia kink meme ([personal profile] hetalia_kink) wrote2010-08-26 10:32 pm

Discussion Post


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Self-explanatory. Here you can talk with other anons about fills, prompts, past connections, anything related to the kink meme!

Please try to keep this post ON TOPIC to discussions related to the kink meme, like rule changes, help finding lost prompts, and questions/discussion pertaining directly to fills or prospective fills. If you just want to talk about Hetalia in an anonymous environment, please head over to [personal profile] aphanon_meme

OPs responding?

(Anonymous) 2013-10-12 04:08 am (UTC)(link)
Okay so. What do you do if you asked the OP something to clarify but the OP hasn't responded for a couple of months?

How long do you wait for an OP to reply before you post your fill? (Because right now I have one question that the OP hasn't answered for months and one question that I have left for about a week. I'm willing to wait on the second one but on the first one.... meh. I don't want to disappoint OP with something she didn't really want.)

Re: OPs responding?

(Anonymous) 2013-10-12 04:28 am (UTC)(link)
I'd go for that first one. If it's been that long and the OP hasn't checked back/isn't tracking the thread, it's their problem. If it was my prompt, I'd never be mad at the filler.

Requesters How Do You Feel?

(Anonymous) 2013-10-15 06:40 pm (UTC)(link)
When a potential Author!Anon comes along and asks if they can change something from your prompt that you feel is fairly important to what you had wanted to see in a potential fill and even in your mind changes the idea/tone altogether from what you had maybe wanted?

Do you just agree to let them make the changes they want because you know you might not get another chance at a fill (especially these days when fills are rare) and/or because you don't want to be labeled as being "picky" (as I've seen some people call requesters here in the discussion post.

Or do you stick to your guns and say that what they asked is not okay and stick to the original prompt even though you know it might not be filled ever?

Note I'm not saying it's wrong of potential Author!Anons to ask if changes to prompts are okay if they don't quite work for them I'm just curious how other requesters react to it.

Re: Requesters How Do You Feel?

(Anonymous) 2013-10-15 07:49 pm (UTC)(link)
I'd probably say something like, "I appreciate your interest, but element X is a really important part of the prompt to me."

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Seconding Post: Pages 30-35

(Anonymous) 2013-10-19 02:58 am (UTC)(link)
I know we're not technically in a freeze yet but any requests that made you excited to see them filled or ones you might want to fill yourself? Post then here!

Re: Seconding Post: Pages 30-35

(Anonymous) 2013-10-19 07:52 pm (UTC)(link)
England - Alien, m!preg

Russia/Many - having his children

Any/Sweden - sex slave

Any/Russia - holding his heart in their hand

Fem!Romano - held prisoner by a tentacle monster

Sweden/America - Accidental Marriage

A/B + C - Platonic Jealousy

Russia/America - Sentient Scarf

Poland/America - comfortable with themselves

//casually thanks god for anon

(Anonymous) 2013-10-19 05:04 am (UTC)(link)
I'm looking for a fill called "Lover in the Water" (I think) where it's consensual tentacle sex with a tentacle thing/fem!Sweden? Does anyone have a link?

Re: //casually thanks god for anon

(Anonymous) 2013-10-19 06:54 am (UTC)(link)
I know that one! (Who am I kidding, I WROTE that one.) Here it is:


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(Anonymous) 2013-10-20 03:31 am (UTC)(link)
Is it like safe to do anything on the kink meme? I've seen a lot of arguments this part and honestly I get the impression that no matter what I do, people are so quick to criticize in a harsh tone ANY flaws they see and it just takes the fun out of the meme seriously IT'S KINK OF COURSE THINGS ARE GOING TO BE OFFENSIVE WHAT DID YOU FREAKING EXPECT? /rant

Sorry I needed to get that off my chest ._.

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(Anonymous) 2013-10-20 06:41 am (UTC)(link)
I feel for ya...

Honestly, I'm just going to keep on doing what I do (assuming I can find the time) and slap the usual warnings on, and if people take issue with what I write, that's on them. Kink is by its nature the darker side of the human brain. Might as well accept that going in.

I confess to being mildly confused when somebody accused me of 'sounding white' for talking about stromatolites, though...

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Help looking for specific requests

(Anonymous) 2013-10-20 04:01 pm (UTC)(link)
I forgot to save my bookmarks when switching to a new computer, which was kind of a drag but I've managed to dig up most of them by trawling the kink meme indexes.

However, these three I am still looking for:

1. England trapped in a box or other small confined space. I think the request may also have called for him to be bound, but in any case the point is that he doesn't want to be in there and he's unable to get out. This was posted sometime between part 20 and 24, I think... not sure. Unfilled.

2. England gangbang, I think it might've been literally a one-line "mob x England" or something like that. And I remember a potential filler asked for details, but there was no answer. I think this was a pretty old request, but can't be sure. Also unfilled.

3. Turkey/Greece noncon petplay, may have asked for Greece as a cat specifically. Unfilled. I was absolutely certain this was in part 25 but can't find it, so maybe not.

Thanks for your help! :)

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(Anonymous) 2013-10-20 04:16 pm (UTC)(link)
Can you give me an idea of how recent these prompts were? That can help narrow things down and help me find them for you faster.

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Ahhh you are a lifesaver!

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Can we post a oneshot and then add more oneshots?

(Anonymous) 2013-10-20 06:37 pm (UTC)(link)
Say there is a prompt, and you fill it, as a short oneshot. Could you post another fic in the same universe?

Re: Can we post a oneshot and then add more oneshots?

(Anonymous) 2013-10-20 08:48 pm (UTC)(link)
I'm pretty sure you can, as long as you're the same author.

Looking for a prompt.

(Anonymous) 2013-10-20 06:39 pm (UTC)(link)
It was, basically, 'Unusual Family'. A variation on normal families, such as the FACE one. I know there was one fill with Canada as the father of Alfred, Francis and Arthur. I think Alfred had a crush on Belarus and Artur was struggling to accept he was gay. I don't think it was ever completed.

I'd like links to both the prompt and the fill!

Re: Looking for a prompt.

(Anonymous) 2014-02-11 05:14 pm (UTC)(link)
And no it's not finished I'm so sorry


And another person looks for a fill...

(Anonymous) 2013-10-22 06:38 am (UTC)(link)
I can't remember what part it was in (or if I imagined it) but it was America/Germany in that order and America wouldn't shut up about a bobsled.

Looking for second part of a fill

(Anonymous) 2013-10-22 03:00 pm (UTC)(link)
Does anyone know if this fill ('a pound of flesh,' England's submission in the High Court of Faerie/http://hetalia-kink.livejournal.com/22015.html?thread=93763071#t93763071 )was continued in another part? I could've sworn I read an ending for this fill when it first came out, but it's been a year and I can't find it, and I don't know whether I just made up the ending in my head or not.

Because I am almost 100% done with this meme (Long post)

(Anonymous) 2013-10-23 01:28 am (UTC)(link)
And everyone who keeps arguing (especially the shitheads who just sit there making snarky remarks which help no one);

Trigger - "In phobia treatment, a trigger is an object or situation that can cause your phobia symptoms to appear. Triggers vary widely, even among people with the same general phobia." (http://phobias.about.com/od/glossary/g/triggerdef.htm)

Basically triggers are the needle(s) in the giant haystack. Anything could be someone's trigger. Yes I know that sounds ridiculous (TW: Cornchips!!!) but you be amazed by the things that can set folks off. If you're familiar with Tumblr, you'd probably seen a post like this before and yes - this still needs to be explain sadly.

So what to do if you've triggered someone? Simple. Just politely apologize to them. None of that bullshit apologies, like genuine.

So what to do if you're fill has triggering stuff (like rape, self-harm, transphobia etc.)? Simple. Just tag it. "TW: insert here" and you're golden.

With that they would have the common sense to scroll past and not put themselves through madness.

Yes, I damn know well this is a fucking kink meme and "this is the interwebs grow a pair pussy" but it doesn't hurt to be cautions. I know,I know complete strangers? Why should I care?

In my personal opinion - is it that hard to be a mature, thoughtful and civil individual?

I really really REALLY hopes this puts an end to all the drama happening here lately. It seems like this was the root of everything to my knowledge.

Seriously everyone just shut the fuck UP

The horse is dead and rotting.

Let's get back to being anonymous kink chaps with good manners.

Re: Because I am almost 100% done with this meme (Long post)

(Anonymous) 2013-10-23 05:27 am (UTC)(link)
If I never promised to provide a safe space I refuse to give a genuine apology for not doing that. I'm not even going to give a fake apology.
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Diff anon: Because I am almost 100% done with this meme (Even longer post)

(Anonymous) 2013-10-23 03:02 am (UTC)(link)
Diff anon than the one above. New post just because I can. Am I spamming the meme? Yes. Am I a self-centered bastard? Fuck yes. Do I care? Fuck no.

So why am I writing this? Because while above anon is right, some people don't get what those trigger warnings are there for.

In other words,

#1: If something triggers you- don't read it. If you do, don't wank on it because there was clearly a trigger warning up there and people are fucking diligent on posting warnings now that they're scared of being next in line.

Analogy: You're in a hall way with doors and the door beside you says "Warning, roomful of blood hungry, sentient knives. Proceed with caution." Would you go in that room? Of course not. You look for the door with the room full to the brim with chocolate (Or something else, whatever floats your boat.)

#2: If you're not triggered by it, but think someone else will- I admire your intents, but I'm sorry. You don't need to stand up for them, thankyouverymuch, people find their way around and avoid what they need to avoid very well. (They're not fucking idiots.)

Back to the analogy- if YOU won't purposely step into a roomful of blood hungry, sentient knives, that means others probably won't too. They also will go looking for that chocolate filled room.

(And I say all this because I have seen wank like this where people have stood up for people who don't need standing up for. Maybe it was here. Maybe it was somewhere else. Doesn't matter, because it was bound to happen anyway.)

#3: If it's a prompt that you're triggered by, I'm sorry, but mod's words.

"Modbox is open, kink meme remains not a safe space/labelled at author's discretion."

Even the rules:

"No flames or general nastiness.
This isn't the place for it. Hold the trolling and wankbaiting. Let's all try to be mature and nice here, ok? If you don't like a pairing or kink, just scroll past it."

If it helps, I genuinely am sorry if something triggered you- but this meme is not a safe place and never said it was. On the other hand, if you feel like it doesn't belong on the kink meme (Not because it triggers you, or because it may trigger another person, but because it really is breaking the rules), please, PLEASE go tell the mods instead of posting a comment that would spark up another wank storm.

(Because fuck, we've had enough of that bullshit, okay?)

And if you have something against the mods decision- I'm sorry, but that's how it is. In this meme, mod's word is law and final, even if you think it's wrong. Don't go flaming the mods on it; they don't need anymore of that shit because they've already seen it. Just ignore the damn thing. It's not that hard. Deep breath, count to thirty. That tends to help in almost any situation.

TL;DR: This meme is not a safe place and never said it was- so please, please, lets be mature and fire this kink meme up again, yes?

Personally- I don't want to see this meme die. I really don't. And to echo the words of above anon: is it that hard to be a mature, thoughtful and civil individual?

... Okay, shutting up now, but fucking please. I'm tired of this shit.

Re: Diff anon: Because I am almost 100% done with this meme (Even longer post)

(Anonymous) 2013-10-23 09:50 pm (UTC)(link)
where is all this terrible terrible wank that's ruining the meme forever because i sure as shit can't find it

Off topic - Help?

(Anonymous) 2013-10-23 09:41 pm (UTC)(link)
So I am in the middle of a History assignment for class and was wondering if anyone could point me in the general direction of why we (Americans) are taught more about Roman history than Persian.

I was reading about Achaemenid road systems and coinage, and decided to do my WOW essay (It's what it sounds like. My teacher is lazy I think. We find a quote that interests us and write an essay involving three questions we have about it.) on the fact that Roman history is emphasized to us despite Persia doing things first.

I can't find any credible sources or even some theories. It may be my wording in searches, but I am having a hell of a time and thought maybe, just maybe, Hetalia writers would have a clue.

Re: Off topic - Help?

(Anonymous) 2013-10-23 10:52 pm (UTC)(link)
"Please try to keep this post ON TOPIC to discussions related to the kink meme"

Try asking [personal profile] aphanon_meme or [livejournal.com profile] fail_fandomanon

Fill suggestions?

(Anonymous) 2013-10-24 02:04 am (UTC)(link)
I'm personally looking for something raw and powerful, something that just made you go oh.

I've hit a wall and I've read some good fills, but I need more. (Why must fills be slow? There are some brilliant authors on here, and I would love to read more from them.) Asian nations would be much appreciated but it doesn't have to be. I read anything.

It's that or some hot sex. Any kink. I have no triggers at all.

Any suggestions, for this part and past parts? I'm new and easily impressed, so just hit me with your bookmarks, please.

Re: Fill suggestions?

(Anonymous) 2013-10-24 03:57 am (UTC)(link)
*cracks knuckles* I hope you like Nordics OP cause thats 95% of what I have

First off, I suggest that you check the pimp post (http://hetalia-kink.dreamwidth.org/77272.html) because there might be some fics there that you might like.

This fill is one of my favorite Asian centric fills ever, though its super dark (and the only Asian fill I have bookmarked orz): http://hetalia-kink.livejournal.com/10456.html?thread=18984920#t18984920

I don't really have any powerful fills to recommend (the ones that I would recommend are either popular or listed on the pimp post somewhere), so here's all the hot sex ones I have:
Fucking Sexy Orgies, Threesomes, etc:
http://hetalia-kink.livejournal.com/632.html?thread=21611384#t21611384 [Warning, shotacon, so if you don’t like that, avoid this one]

Here is 2/3’s of Scandinavia (aka I couldn’t find any SuFin in my bookmarks):

Oh look I lied more Asians:
http://hetalia-kink.dreamwidth.org/72958.html?thread=424907774#cmt424907774 [RoChu, Voyeur!Korea]
http://hetalia-kink.dreamwidth.org/70661.html?thread=416865029#cmt416865029 [RoChu]
http://hetalia-kink.dreamwidth.org/72380.html?thread=423823548#cmt423823548 [Ameripan]

Hello Middle East:
http://hetalia-kink.dreamwidth.org/70661.html?thread=415571973#cmt415571973 [Genderbent TurGypt]
http://hetalia-kink.dreamwidth.org/70591.html?thread=413220031#cmt413220031 [Egypt>Turkey<Greece] http://hetalia-kink.dreamwidth.org/70661.html?thread=417622533#cmt417622533 [Giripan] America, Eh?: http://hetalia-kink.dreamwidth.org/78319.html?thread=487139823#cmt487139823 [Franada] http://hetalia-kink.livejournal.com/15769.html?thread=41211545#t41211545 [Ame+Eng+Fra/Canada] And the other that didn’t fall into the above categories: http://hetalia-kink.dreamwidth.org/72059.html?thread=419840635#cmt419840635 [PruAus] I had others but off to bed for this anon. I'll come back an add onto this list later maybe.


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Are IP addresses logged?

(Anonymous) 2013-10-26 03:47 am (UTC)(link)
I just want to be sure. I don't know if DW tells you (unlike LJ)

Poland recs?

(Anonymous) 2013-10-28 05:43 am (UTC)(link)
What are your favorite Poland fills? Whether they be silly, serious, historical, AU, etc.

Re: Poland recs?

(Anonymous) 2013-10-31 09:21 pm (UTC)(link)
I remember reading an England/Poland fill. I forgot the name but it gave a explanation as to why Poland took up cross-dressing. Come to think of it, I want to see more fills like that. No crack but not overly serious either.

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Any Asia recs?

(Anonymous) 2013-11-01 05:55 am (UTC)(link)
This anon is an Asia lover and would love to read more Asia, any pairing, any warnings. (AKA I read everything. No trigger.)

Any good recs? I've read everything on the pimp post and have trawled through some parts.

Any time travel fic recs?

(Anonymous) 2013-11-05 10:19 pm (UTC)(link)
I'm a sucker for a good time travel fic, but I can never seem to find any good ones! Any recommendations?

Seconding thread part 25, pages 36-40

(Anonymous) 2013-11-19 06:52 pm (UTC)(link)
Prompts are now closed; did we see anything we like?

Re: Seconding thread part 25, pages 36-40

(Anonymous) 2013-11-19 07:58 pm (UTC)(link)

Any/Norway, sensory deprivation.

Micronations being kidnapped.

The dystopia prompt.

...prob'bly a few others I can't recall right now.


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(Anonymous) 2013-12-08 01:06 pm (UTC)(link)
I can't find the prompt in regards to america being female and england discovering she's pregnant. She then runs off to canada's place. If anyone can help me it'll be greatly appreciated

(Anonymous) 2013-12-18 05:38 pm (UTC)(link)
Can I do a fill that "fuses" two prompts? If so, how do I list it?


(Anonymous) 2013-12-19 04:41 pm (UTC)(link)
I'd either list it under the prompt it borrows most from, or use 'Anything Goes' and make a note which two prompts you used.

Absolutely great fill

(Anonymous) 2013-12-27 06:39 am (UTC)(link)
I saw that the pimp post was archived, so that's why I'm putting this here.


This fic is absolutely gorgeous. Even though I'm disappointed there's no real pairing or porn to the story, it's most definitely worth the read. I lurk here on the discussion post, rarely ever comment, but I do hear complaints that there's no stories that stick. Like many, I come here primarily for the porn. However, this is such a great exploration of such a misused, misrepresented, and usually static and flat character with reference to both history and culture while remaining canon that I am recommending it here.

The request was nothing special, even cheesy and bad in my own opinion. Yet this fill takes it so much farther. The voice of the filler is almost poetic, and although it deals with dark themes, it remains light and appealing. No Germancest, although there is RuPru and PruHun, all consensual and very realistic. If you're looking for porn, don't look here. If you're looking for an absolutely great, compelling story about Prussia as he survived through the 20th century as the DDR and then finally through Reunification, read this. It hasn't received nearly enough comments.

Well, this turned out a lot longer than I thought it would, but hopefully others will enjoy this fill as much as I did.

Re: Absolutely great fill

(Anonymous) 2013-12-28 06:01 pm (UTC)(link)
I can only agree. This fill is amazing.

Mongoose/ Russia accidently captures America fic

(Anonymous) 2014-01-02 08:15 pm (UTC)(link)
I've been seeing bits of this fic on both Livejournal and Dreamwidth, but I haven't been able to find any updates past Chapter 10. This fic is from 2010, and I don't want to believe it's just been abandoned. If anyone has any links to Mongoose past Ch 10, it'd be greatly appreciated.

Re: Mongoose/ Russia accidently captures America fic

(Anonymous) 2014-01-06 07:40 am (UTC)(link)
it sucks to say it, but if it's from 2010 and was incomplete then, it probably has been abandoned by now.

Seconding thread, part 25, pages 40-45

(Anonymous) 2014-01-06 04:56 pm (UTC)(link)
Prompts have been closed for a bit. Did we see anything we like?

Re: Seconding thread, part 25, pages 40-45

(Anonymous) 2014-01-06 06:09 pm (UTC)(link)
I like these.

Arthur/Anyone, as drawn by Alfred

Germany - live spider in his butt

AmeCan - Professors AU

Any - Sex slave, the moment of breaking

Australia, ensemble - noncon gangbang

Any female/any male - femdom, slavefic

Any/Any - wanking to a map

England (+ France) - The Lion in Winter crossover